Been a WHILE since I've had the delight of multiple partners... going through a divorce and custody battle kinda puts the kibosh on that... but I wish you a WONDERFUL time :-D Enjoy yourself, don't do anything stupid, yadda yadda yadda.

AKA "Pig on a spit"



C'mon Brianna, only two guys? What's the third hole for then?

Putting.

I'm not buying it.

I guess I must be a prude or unimaginative. To me it seems like what used to be called playground talk and is now known as urban legend. All talk no action, or nearly none. I know of no one, not first hand, not second hand, not third hand that has any actual experience like this. They make moderately interesting stories, but no more.

Color me skeptical.

Been there, done them. Been in many 3-ways, 4-ways and more-ways. Through Craigslist, Manhunt, and bath houses. I'll take pics at the next one for you and then YOU WILL BELIEVE!!! Muahahahaha!!!!

Screaming for the Preparation H?

Meh V, can show you many a pic. Can also show you the local *swingers directory* that comes out bi-monthly (pun?).

There are parties dedicated to these type of *get togethers* every month in the city.

Awww Bri....what about you, me and two guys?

Respectfully Sheldonrs, the pictures won't be necessary. Please don't take offense, I intend none. I'll take your word for it; the pictures wouldn't lend any more credibility. I'm still...I believe you, ok?

I just don't grok the whole recreational, uncommitted sex meme. I can't separate sex from love. Love from sex, yes, there are several people I love that hold no sexual attraction for me whatsoever. But eros without agape...is incomprehensible to me.

A word: mere physical stimulation does not qualify as eros for me. A wet dream is no more love than a galvanic reaction is exercise.

I know I'm a serious fellow. And as far as serious topics go, sex is quite near the top. Along with commitment, respect, privacy, and monogamy. Casual sex is an oxymoron in my experience.

I guess, no, I'm certain there's much much more going on in the big wide world than are dreamt of in my philosophy. Heheh.. me and Horatio, batchin' it. Go on. Have fun. I'm happily ignorant right where I'm at.

Thanks for the pix offer--pass though.

The bold parts are where I lose the connection. I just can't--I was going to say imagine. That's not right. I can imagine it. I could even imagine myself in such a situation. But even imagining myself in such a situation isn't stimulating without a loving partner. There's no appeal without including the love of my heart.

When you were involved with your partner, what made you not do it well? I'm in that same mindset. With a partner, whatever's mutual is open for discussion. But otherwise, no.

I'm mangling what I'm trying to say. Here it is. No sex without love for me. Just not happenin. To each his own, I don't condemn you or the others, I just can't though. Carry on.

I get what youre saying V, now that I have the additional information.

I didnt *play* well in the past, when I have been involved with my play partner because I get jealous, not raving mad jealous, but I do get jealous and then I get really insecure and worried....mainly because I have been cheated on in the past and those scars are deep.

Horse dude keeps telling me that we wont do anything that I am not comfortable with :D so its all good. I like trying different things, we have had a lot of fun in parks etc so far....tis fun

Is this a group he knows already, cuz, if so , be prepared to run into a few of his favorites.

Ooh!! Oooh!!! Mistuh Kotteh!!! Ovah heah!!!!!

C'mon V. If you were involved in that scene, would you, tell you, about it? :rotflol:

You don't believe this kind of thing happens? More than 2 people having sexual contact with each other at the same time in the same place, together?

Really?

I've had two women at the same time. Under fantasy conditions (wife brought home a stripper). Been there, done that. Won't do it again.

Even as a young lad, I had trouble keeping up with wife #1's sexual appetite. What the heck was I smoking that allowed me tho think I could keep up with TWO???

I have wonderful memories but I don't think I can do it again.