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DanaC 06-20-2020 06:30 AM

He was a Good Boy, he really was.

Gravdigr 06-25-2020 02:38 PM

I parked my car yesterday and everything was fine.

Then, Popdigr drove my car to town, cuz his is in the shop.

Today I walk out to my car to put the top down so it'll be habitable when I'm ready to go somewhere, and there's a foot-long tear/break in my rear bumper cover, right on the corner. I noticed it right away cuz that bumper cover was cherry, damn near perfect.

And nobody knows nothing about nothing.

Now I need both bumper covers.

Gravdigr 06-25-2020 02:40 PM

And now I'm grr.

DanaC 06-25-2020 03:06 PM

That is very grrrr.

xoxoxoBruce 06-26-2020 12:15 AM

You can customize it with two black ones. There are people that repair those things, I had one repaired when none were available anywhere.

Griff 06-26-2020 06:24 AM


monster 09-09-2020 11:09 PM

I just opened my mouth and started to turn my head to ask beest something .... like he was in the kitchen right behind me just tidying up and getting the dishwasher on before heading to bed which was how it was at this time of night. I suspect this will never stop, I need to find a way to deal with it better. 2.5 years. I've got my head around most of the stuff, but these unbidden moments....

xoxoxoBruce 09-09-2020 11:27 PM

A lot of years of habit to untrain, it will take time. Eventually on the rare occasions it does happen it'll make you smile.

Clodfobble 09-09-2020 11:43 PM

I'm sorry for the unexpected reminder. For what it's worth, I think you're dealing with it in exactly the right way. It's a good thing when the grieving starts to ease a bit, and the happy memories get to take back over for just a second here and there.

monster 09-10-2020 12:06 AM

the stuff I've gotten my head around is (some of) the practical stuff, and it isn't fun. And thinking "oh I'll ask..." .... fuck. But when I'm off guard it ... yeah

I had a brief dream respite for the last few months, but he's back.... Just mundane every day life anxiety dreams..... and for a while it was just me. and sometimes it still is. The only resolution is dawn either way.

I have never woken expecting to find him there, though. So there's that. That would be horrible(r), I think. But maybe that's because his side is full of clean laundry waiting to be put away and a multitude of pillows to try and help with my rapidly aging body randomly needing support in weird places in the night :D

Belle 09-15-2020 04:35 AM

My son, He is suffering from fever.

Diaphone Jim 09-15-2020 11:15 AM

What's a bumper cover?

Gravdigr 09-15-2020 08:07 PM

It's the, usually gray or black, plastic or vinyl piece that covers the actual, structural steel bumper.

Visible on both of ends of m'little Cherry Bomb here.

Below the damn cat.

richlevy 10-03-2020 10:55 AM

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Okay so maybe I'm focusing on something really really small because of all the really really world changing crap that is going on today. That being said can someone please explain to me how coffee can be crunchy.

lumberjim 10-03-2020 11:32 AM

you could freeze it?

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