ahhhh, that sucks for all you ladies. There are some complete bastards out there who do a disservice to the male population.

You're right Ducks.......it isn't supposed to be that hard. Sounds like one of those times you wish you were all around the corner from each other and could go out for dinner and have a bit of a bitch session and a few bottles of red!

What's upsetting me today doesn't seem to compare to the shit that has been thrown your way girls, so i'll keep it to myself :)

Spill it TSM!! Its all good in the bitch thread.

FWIW, I hold no grudges against the guy I was seeing, he was in the dark about the pregnancy until just last week and was working things out in his head...just shitty timing is all.

It just baffles me at times, that its not simple like it used to be.

Yeah, youre right Bruce, with age comes baggage, and I dont mind baggage so much...if you didnt have baggage at this stage, to me, that would signify deeper problems.

true that, rk,bruce,ducks

ah man....*hugs for the hurt ducks*



Good thing is the memory will fade. There's still time to find beauty in things if we just look for them.

[edit- To be fair to him I realized from the beginning it wouldn't work. I saw the future. I am a single working mother and he is a footloose and free male who dates girly girls which isn't me so I am the stupid one for letting him have his way instead of laughing in his face when he asked me out to begin with. Totally not my type. Aries / Scorpio mix dosn't work. I'm earthy. He's nuts. ]

yeah TSM...misery loves company don'cha know.

it's gona seem silly, so trivial but it's pissing me off totally.

Do i go to Darwin for a weekend with 2 mates at the begining of August or do I not. On one hand it's Darwin cup - which should be wild, but on the other hand it's AUD 650 bucks just for airfare, plus i'm only going for 5 days.

I can't decide if 650 bucks so too expensive for airfares for just five days............when you include the extra cash for socialising then it's an expensive excercise.

Why can I not make a decision.

Dammit - i need a beer.

But as i said......not in the same ballpark as you lasses.

I say go for it!! Money is money and can be replaced. Memories are priceless. :)

Darwins awesome!!! Do it!!

Although, $650 is fairly expensive, I flew up there for $350 in March.

yeah I thought $650 was a bit pricey - they're trying to sting me prolly because the cup's on the same weekend.

See, i agree with you also sky, memories last a lifetime so it would be pretty cool.

I dunno, i've been thinking more since i posted and i'm slowly talking myself out of it. Maybe i'm being put off by the heat, and my damn pasty skin......haha, us redheads have all the fun.

arrrghgghh this is a hard one. Might toss a coin and leave it to chance.

It sounds like you don't WANT to go.

?

The five-year-old has become very jealous of the toddler and is acting out physically against him. It's still within the range of normal and not a long-term concern, but it's hugely upsetting.

Had a caudal vs lumbar (sp?) epidural again today... OUCH!
That is the one where they punch a big needle through your coccyx and pump fluid into your epidural space.
Mine is really small, birth defect, and it feels like my spine is in a vice for three days.
The whole process sucks.

I have to stuff 500 envelopes today for a bankruptcy mailing.

Okay, I know that's trivial compared to yours, Rob. Sorry you have to suffer. Hope it's worth it!

Not trivial at all... all I have to do now is lie here and be all, like, "this sucks, ow".
Sorry about the mailing, hope you don't get cut too much.

well, as long as you're lying there, you could help me.

Wanna lick?

:)

Not gonna' think it... not... damn

;)