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Forum: Relationships 03-28-2011, 02:50 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
BigV: 2010 was a weird year. Got in trouble with...

BigV: 2010 was a weird year. Got in trouble with the law and I'm still dealing with the aftermath of that (I've been told it's rather common and innocuous, but I'm big on personal accountability, so...
Forum: Relationships 03-28-2011, 02:56 AM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
I'm not dead yet. Talked with the person that...

I'm not dead yet. Talked with the person that caused me to spawn this thread a couple times since. Didn't change my resolve to move on.

Happy now, even though life has thrown me a curve ball and...
Forum: Relationships 02-12-2010, 04:01 AM
Replies: 49
Views: 5,551
Posted By disenchanted
TG, it's not too far back from me recanting my...

TG, it's not too far back from me recanting my own trainwreck in this same corner of the cellar. However things are going for you, here's my words of advice: Take some time and figure out who you are...
Forum: Home Base 10-06-2009, 10:26 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,700
Posted By disenchanted
I once made a political fundraising telemarketer...

I once made a political fundraising telemarketer cry. They made the mistake of calling me up when I was near my computer, so I looked up a list of all the pending congressional bills at the time and...
Forum: Relationships 10-05-2009, 09:35 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 4,219
Posted By disenchanted
Clearly I am not the person to tell anyone about...

Clearly I am not the person to tell anyone about engagements, but my two cents is to be clear to her about your concerns, advise her to consider a long engagement, and let her know that you'll watch...
Forum: Relationships 07-27-2009, 03:08 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,050
Posted By disenchanted
Personally, can't figure out where this stuff got...

Personally, can't figure out where this stuff got so complicated. When I'm with a lady, there doesn't seem to be a lot of rules outside of keeping an ear out in case the word "No" ever comes up.
...
Forum: Technology 07-21-2009, 09:25 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,387
Posted By disenchanted
any linux boot disk should do the trick. get ye...

any linux boot disk should do the trick. get ye to a command line and try something like "dd if=/dev/zero of=/dev/sda" (might have to adjust sda (scsi/sata drive) to hda (pata/ata) drive...with the a...
Forum: Relationships 07-05-2009, 03:31 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,632
Posted By disenchanted
Well, I should say as a big disclaimer that I met...

Well, I should say as a big disclaimer that I met the woman that led to the "24-hour engagement" thread on okcupid.

It was kind of new to me, but she once explained to me that there's some set of...
Forum: Relationships 06-29-2009, 01:27 AM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
Well, I guess that does explain why Lumberjim...

Well, I guess that does explain why Lumberjim wants me to post a picture.
Forum: Relationships 06-28-2009, 05:49 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
So I was sitting at a coffeehouse this morning...

So I was sitting at a coffeehouse this morning reading a book, looked up and saw an attractive lady in a sundress walk by. So I smiled at her and thought of this place.

A brief update:

I bought...
Forum: Relationships 06-12-2009, 10:39 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
beestie, capnhowdy: I guess that's what's...

beestie, capnhowdy: I guess that's what's changing in me. Not so much a "Gosh, I hope she hasn't found some other guy", but a "I hope I learn from this, whatever it was."
Forum: Relationships 06-12-2009, 01:23 AM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
zengun: clearly, because I need to find ways to...

zengun: clearly, because I need to find ways to be more repellent towards other people =)
Forum: Relationships 06-11-2009, 09:58 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
I've not heard anything from her. I'm...

I've not heard anything from her.

I'm currently working on the "Grand Unified Theory of WTF? What Happened", and I think my current working model is this:

Her parents' relationship is screwed...
Forum: Relationships 06-04-2009, 10:16 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
I was the one kid in elementary school whose...

I was the one kid in elementary school whose parents were divorced. It was something I grew up with and a central theme to a lot of my early life. So I told myself "If I'm going to go down that road,...
Forum: Relationships 06-04-2009, 09:50 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
I think this is less me being sentimental and...

I think this is less me being sentimental and more being a romantic sap. It's hard to let go after spending so much time soul-searching trying to figure out if she was the right one.

But, I've...
Forum: Relationships 06-04-2009, 09:25 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
Used to be...after the previous relationship went...

Used to be...after the previous relationship went south and I found myself carrying armfuls of crap out to the dumpster, I've been a lot more selective about how much stuff I keep around.

Why do...
Forum: Relationships 06-04-2009, 01:00 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,250
Posted By disenchanted
As for the painting thing, I say just find a...

As for the painting thing, I say just find a weekend, get a couple friends and/or relatives together, spring for some pizza and beer, and just do it all at once. Tell your compatriot painters nice...
Forum: Relationships 06-03-2009, 10:25 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
classicman: yeah, I was kind of alluding to that...

classicman: yeah, I was kind of alluding to that possibility (even if it's some future studly do-right) as the last reason.

I'm a little mixed up right now. Many signs point to "Just let go...
Forum: Relationships 06-03-2009, 09:06 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
Part of me wants to move forward, part of me...

Part of me wants to move forward, part of me thinks there's still something to hold on to.

Her "give me more time and have a little patience" thing tells me either she thinks I'll eventually...
Forum: Relationships 06-03-2009, 01:37 AM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
Clodfobble, daff0dil: I hear that. Already it's...

Clodfobble, daff0dil: I hear that. Already it's getting hard to process the good times in light of the wounds (scars to come, I'm sure.) I'm supposed to keep waiting here, for what? Urgh...maybe I...
Forum: Relationships 06-02-2009, 01:53 AM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
well, I guess, in fairness, I didn't really...

well, I guess, in fairness, I didn't really specify much when I said "rough patch". Maybe that'll color things a bit? Maybe it'll give some fodder to tell me I'm blind.

Couple months into the...
Forum: Relationships 06-02-2009, 12:31 AM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
monster: I'm just looking for any voice that can...

monster: I'm just looking for any voice that can help me make sense of this at this point. More guidance than sympathy, I'm just saying the guidance has been largely one-sided. Maybe that means...
Forum: Relationships 06-02-2009, 12:23 AM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
And thus is the nature of my hope, right or...

And thus is the nature of my hope, right or wrong, it seemed like we were both on track for marriage from a very early state. The more we talked about it and the more we let all those external doubts...
Forum: Relationships 06-01-2009, 10:18 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
aliantha: It's a salient point, but I started...

aliantha: It's a salient point, but I started this thread the night after I last saw her and we're at just over the two week point now. The rush to "Yup, she's over you/you should move on" started...
Forum: Relationships 06-01-2009, 09:20 PM
Replies: 308
Views: 28,254
Posted By disenchanted
aliantha: Most of the advice seems pretty geared...

aliantha: Most of the advice seems pretty geared toward the negative. It's over. She's probably found some other guy. There's no way to solve this. Go find someone else. Oh, and from earlier in the...
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