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Originally posted by jaguar
So in short, we're all fuckups who wouldn't know a good thing if she asked us to dinner? Wonderful. Looks like potential for two clubs here.
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Not at all, Jag. Its a continium of sorts or like a graph with the shape of that dreaded bell curve that every college student knows. On one end of the spectrum are people raised in a healthy environment by two very healthy, highly functional parents (alas, a relative minority). On the opposite end are people who were raised in highly abusive situations, often with one or even both parents absent. These people are also in the minority (although its numbers seem to be growing, unfortunately). The rest of us fall somewhere in the middle, raised by parents who made some mistakes, but did the best they could under whatever the circumstances were. This constitutes the majority of both sexes. We may have our difficulties, but with patience and perserverance we can work through them. There is no reason to have two clubs unless you want to create them.