Ahhh, it's all about chemistry/physical attraction. Keep it superficial is my motto!
Actually, the best worst lover I ever had was a man I fell for the first time I ever heard him speak. We were at a meeting and he was sitting behind me, so I hadn't noticed him until he was called upon to talk. He was so droll with the best self-deprecating, dry wit. I turned around to see who was talking and damned if he didn't look just like Robert Redford in his younger days! The combination of looks and wit absolutely captivated me. I knew he would be no good for me and I knew I didn't give a damn. What a merry chase that was! My current SO also captured my heart across a crowded room, but in rather a different manner. I was at an open mike at a coffee shop and he got up on stage and began to play classical guitar like Segovia. One rendition of "Recuerdos" and I was a goner. So is that looks or skill? Hmmm... Let's just say he has things he can do with his hands and leave it at that!
