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I'm not sure where to start so I'll just share some thoughts and see where it goes.
That you have posted this makes me wonder if something about it isn't starting to bother you - just a hunch, tho. If so, let's have it.
I'd be fairly uncomfortable if the kids knew about the sexual aspect of the GTGs. My opinion is that kids should be taught monogamy and abstention (but not kicked out of the house for breaches of either).
I don't know how you guys get around the problem of having your partner excited by someone else. It would bother me to see my wife more excited about some other dude than me. It would bother me that she has needs I couldn't fulfil. I think that is probably a bigger problem for men.
What is your husband's position on this lifestyle?
More importantly, are you and your husband on the same page with respect to continuing this lifestyle?
Is the problem with "her" your problem or your husband's problem? Or is that the problem?
Since y'all only get together now and then, how is the sex by yourselves? Is the opinion on that mutual?
At some point, y'all are going to be limited to your mates and not have the option of other partners. How will the relationship function then?
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