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kerosene · 02-27-2005, 01:11 PM

Yes, the illegal weapons are a big deal. We haven't even fully discussed that with the attorney. We don't have proof of it, though, so I am not sure how we should go about approaching that.

Thanks, OC! The hearing is on Monday, 3/7. We have a week, but our attorney plans on adding several addendums with evidence. I think we have a good shot at it...and there is a possibility that the court may require a psych eval to re-determine custody. If this happens, they appoint an evaluator, but we are not so sure we want social services digging around in our lives. I guess if it comes to that, we don't have much choice. If we had the money we would hire an evaluator and request the evaluation ourselves.

One other thing, we requested the attendance record from bf's daughter's school and we received it in the mail the other day. Daughter has had 18 absences so far this year. She is a kindergartener. 9 of these absences were excused by her mother and 9 of them were not excused. There is a whole week in January where she was absent unexcused, and when bf asked about that in an email to the ex, she never responded.

Anyway, thanks so much for all the support here. I will keep you posted!

02-27-2005, 01:11 PM	#4
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	Yes, the illegal weapons are a big deal. We haven't even fully discussed that with the attorney. We don't have proof of it, though, so I am not sure how we should go about approaching that. Thanks, OC! The hearing is on Monday, 3/7. We have a week, but our attorney plans on adding several addendums with evidence. I think we have a good shot at it...and there is a possibility that the court may require a psych eval to re-determine custody. If this happens, they appoint an evaluator, but we are not so sure we want social services digging around in our lives. I guess if it comes to that, we don't have much choice. If we had the money we would hire an evaluator and request the evaluation ourselves. One other thing, we requested the attendance record from bf's daughter's school and we received it in the mail the other day. Daughter has had 18 absences so far this year. She is a kindergartener. 9 of these absences were excused by her mother and 9 of them were not excused. There is a whole week in January where she was absent unexcused, and when bf asked about that in an email to the ex, she never responded. Anyway, thanks so much for all the support here. I will keep you posted!