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OK. My parents butted out of my love life at 16, and I ended up pregnant. I will *not* butt the hell out of any part of his life, as long as he lives under my roof, and I'm paying for his school supplies, his food, his deoderant, his toilet paper, his clothes, funding his trips to Virginia for OPTIONAL school trips, OPTIONAL dances, ferrying him to and from all this crap, and all the rest of the shit I'm doing.
When he is out of my house, then he can go fuck any little bitch he wants, and deal with the consequences. UNTIL then, he is a MINOR, he is MY responsibility, and he WILL fall under my authority. If he don't like it, he can move with his father in June (who will not let him date AT ALL) or he can lump it until December when he's 18 and then get the fuck out.
Who is going to have to "deal with it" when he knocks this bitch up? Not only her parents. You've heard right here in the cellar the effects of teen pregnancies. So I suppose it's not going to be my responsibility then? Think again, Jag. Who is the first person he's gonna run to? That's right, that would be me. So until I can tell him that it was completely his choice and his decision, and therefore completely his consequences, I have to continue to act and set down rules like I would for myself, because they aren't just HIS consequences. Yet. His choices right now effect my ENTIRE family.
I will act accordingly.
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Impotentes defendere libertatem non possunt.
"Repetition does not transform a lie into a truth."
~Franklin D. Roosevelt
Last edited by OnyxCougar; 04-17-2005 at 04:31 PM.
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