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what the hell kind of men do you people get locked up with? I'm totally serious! When i was a single guy, I lived in absolute filth - nothing was ever cleaned, I did laundry only when I couldn't walk from my bed to the door without stepping on dirty clothes. My kitchen was filled up with dirty dishes and old pizza boxes. It doesn't bother me all that much.
We both work an insane number of hours, but we split the housework as evenly as we can. I clean the bathroom top to bottom every saturday morning, make dinner and clean the kitchen about 1/2 the time, and the ONLY reason is because I love my wife, and it's important to her.
I don't care how squishy a guy makes you feel in your girl parts, if his love for you doesn't motivate him to actions that demonstrate selflessness and compassion, it's not good enough. Respect yourself. Expect more from the guys you throw in with.
-ml
Last edited by smoothmoniker; 04-24-2005 at 01:26 PM.
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