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Yes, we have often over the last few years discussed some things such as my snapping at him and it's repercussions (sp), and his apparent lack of regard for his health (overweight) affecting my physical attraction to him. I have learned to and gotten better at holding back and he tries to get more exercise. (i even bought us new mtn bikes to try to help us get more exercise together) Things haven't seemed to improve. We have not discussed my current overall unhappiness yet, as I KNOW he will accuse me of being depressed and not taking my meds (I am, faithfully). He has done this in the past when I have tried to open up a bit, but without professional help. Which is why i want to see a counselor. Is my depression hurting my marriage, or is the marriage causing my depression? I do not plan to talk to him again till i have a few things straight in my head.
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