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lookout123 · 07-27-2005, 12:41 PM

i would say be honest no matter what, but approach the guy and tell him how it went down.

i was in this guy's shoes once. apparently many of our friends and my ex-wife's family knew she was cheating but thought it was none of their business. i decided that if they really had been my friends that someone would have said something. anything. whether pressing the issue with her or coming to me directly. as it stands, i haven't had contact with any of those people since the divorce. i don't hold a grudge, but i could never trust those people to be concerned about my well-being again. they chose their loyalties, not me.

07-27-2005, 12:41 PM	#2
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	i would say be honest no matter what, but approach the guy and tell him how it went down. i was in this guy's shoes once. apparently many of our friends and my ex-wife's family knew she was cheating but thought it was none of their business. i decided that if they really had been my friends that someone would have said something. anything. whether pressing the issue with her or coming to me directly. as it stands, i haven't had contact with any of those people since the divorce. i don't hold a grudge, but i could never trust those people to be concerned about my well-being again. they chose their loyalties, not me. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin