Don't feel bad at all, Juju. It is Juju's Place, after all! ;)
There are times when it is ok to be angry. If they try to hide it and force it down, it will start to eat away at them. They could explode in major anger and cause more damage than if they were just normally angry. And of course forcing the anger down is causing them not to be honest with themselves and their friends. Society raises us with the belief that it is not ok to be angry. This probably happens with women in a greater extent.
I've made stupid mistakes that I wish I could go back and fix, but I can't. I've just had to learn the lesson from it, forgive myself, then let go of it and move on.
Some people never catch on to some of the things they do. You're doing just fine, Juju.
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