Hell, yeah!
"Using people", IMHO, refers to lying to people to get your own ends (or end away!(that may be a British phrase?)). Just be honest about what you want. I hope he is the same.
So long as you're honest with the guy. "I fancy you", "You're sexy", "You turn me on" are all OK things to say, but "I love you" (if you don't), "I'll be yours forever" etc are not. What's the problem?
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