Well, you only asked if you should tell him NOW how hurtful his comment was or wait till he's out of jail. I'll tell you this--if you decide to tell him now he will unleash on you and blame you for everything that ever went wrong in his life and call you nasty names and say how you don't understand him, etc., etc. If you wait, he'll unleash on you and blame you for everything that ever went wrong in his life and call you nasty names...see the similarity? Just kind of a gut feeling I get about him.
PS-if you're on house arrest for a DUI (surely not his first DUI?) don't they let you out to work?
I don't mean to come across all saintly--I had a DUI. I'll NEVER do that again, either. The speech by the MADD women shredded my heart and I vowed NEVER to do that stupid thing again.
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In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic.
"Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her.
—James Barrie
Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum
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