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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce
Remember, if he wasn't thinking about you that day it's because you didn't make the list of his problems, he was preoccupied with.  |
Thanks Bruce, I didn't think of it like that
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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce
Tell him he hurt your feelings if it will make you feel better and you can do it in a matter of fact way without being dramatic.
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Actually, I decided to go ahead and just do it. He didn't know that he did anything and apologized. He says that he does think about me and I said that's not what you said last night. He says he does think about it. I said that I understand I am not at the top of his list (obviously, his son is), but he doesn't need to throw it in my face. He said that he wasn't throwing it in my face, those are the things that he needs to get him through.
I was so proud of myself, I didn't cry (even though I felt like it), I didn't do anything extreme, we discussed it like adult human beings.
Thank you guys for not telling me just to dump him. I know another board that would have told me to dump him no matter what.