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Originally Posted by Buddug
I think that the main problem is that many of you are prey to all this pseudo-psychological bunkum . You bandy words and expressions like 'co-dependent' ' charmer/abuser' , 'enabler' around . ...
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The main problem you are having with this is ignorance. In Computer Science we have named Design Patterns such as Strategy and Adapter. In Geometry people discuss 'right angle', it has a definition, it has properties you can do things with, you know its limits.
People that are 'co-dependent' don't often see the pattern until it is pointed out to them. It is a real pattern with commonalities that can be recognized and solutions that can be applied. Sure people are all different, that's what makes it harder than Geometry.