My 3.5 yo daughter is the 'taker' and the 'giver' (her names). She takes the plates from the table and gives them to me at the sink where I load the dishwasher. Once it's run, she does the silverware, now that she is tall enough to see in the drawer. She actually gets mad at me if I do it. As for laundry, she makes all of the washrags into perfect squares, and matches socks. Oh, and if I am wiping up the floor, she had to have a
wet rag to wipe too, or I get an earfull. I am counting down the time it takes till I have to pay her to do these things