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Originally Posted by Aliantha
Sparkie...I'd hate to be in your situation. If it were me, I'd probably hang in there and take care of him out of some sense of pity associated with the past and what we'd shared. Maybe also genuine concern for someone who'd meant a lot in some way. I dunno though. I don't know shit about what you two shared, but it sounds pretty serious.
Everyone needs someone to help them in times like this. I imagine he must be terrified in so many ways.
It'll break your heart being there with him till the end, but then, it'll probably break your heart if you're not there either. Tough choice if you ask me. Lucky you have so many friends to help share the load huh?
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Thanks Aliantha
He is still doing long haul in the USA but goes home more often. Used to be he would be out six weeks then ask to go home, which would take another week. Now he asks at 4 weeks.
I am in Toronto, Canada so we didnt get together often, but were engaged and I was going to drive with him. But then he needed to face this alone as he says.
So we would not see each other much, unless he has to quit driving. He said he would move to Buffalo NY and we can have weekends together.
Not sure how his health will hold up. I am not in love with him, but care. Love him too.
Actually you seem to be the ONLY friend here I have, as no one else showed any interest. LOL
So thanks for noticing, and my very best wishes.
:-)