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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce
Just because they act like George and Condi, doesn't mean it's more than a friendship. Maybe he gets pissy when you question him because it's the millionth time you've asked the same questions. Maybe he's concealing things because you get pissy over nothing of consequence. Maybe he's trying to work around your clingyness because he actually loves you. Maybe it's all in your imagination.
But, you know what, even if all that were true.....don't marry him.
You don't fit as a couple and with all this shit during the courting stage, I doubt it would work out when you got down to the routine of marriage.
My point is, it really doesn't matter much who's fault it is, you don't play well together.  |
I have to admit this hits it it home. Especially the last sentence!!!!! It's one to remember. Finding fault takes a lot of energy and if you know it's not going to get better, skip it and accept failure. There is no shame to that! The only shame would be beating a dead horse on and on and on.....