[Sun_Sparkz]

we dont know the full situation.

I used to be in a situation LIKE this though. a girl at my fiance's work drove me INSANE with jealousy for about 5 months when he first started at his new woek. she was "training" him and also befriended him. they would do everything you descibed.. and more. but it was all in my head in the end.. and yes.. my SO used to be furious and go all red and steam out of his ears.. the works ...when i used to question him.. but thats only because i questioned him so many times. i would have a bad dream about them together and i would wake up so upset and wake him at 2am in the mornign and be crying "your fucking her arent you!", and other ridiculous insecure insults and questions.

haha.. i was so insanely jealous.. and she loved every second of it. trying to make me feel like she knew him better than me. dropping little thorns here and there "oh me and deano shared a subway the other day, haha he has those thing so SPICY with all those halapenos.. oh *giggle giggle* i had to make him buy me a juice afterward" spew.

but he really loved me, and it WAS only a friendship in the end and absolutely nothing more i could bet my life on it now.. but back then i was ready to walk out the door. It was more my own insecurities than anything else.

The best thing that got me over it: spending time with her. and being with them together.

Go to this party.. INSIST that he invite her. go to special effort that whole day to look like HOT SHIT. then go.. and show her the fuck up. YOU his hot sexy girlfriend and your the one he sleeps up to everynight and your the one he is MARRYING so that is what matters - and then befriend her. with crocodile smiles of course.