Wow... this thread got kinky quick... not that I mind.
I like the occasional kinky sex, but mostly I just like it when he pulls my hair. Maybe that is because I used to have short hair and now it is halfway down my back, and I think long hair is really sexy, so it makes me feel sexy. Who knows. LOL I always like to start out gentle and work up to the rough kink.
But, to each his (or her) own.