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Originally Posted by maninthebox
I think I just learned to stay out of other's people's lives and worry about mine.
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Personally, I think you overdid it with the baring-of-your-heart letter AND demanding a hug for your efforts, especially when you saw her backing off. I do think it was kind of you to assist her when she was emotionally fragile (when the ex showed up) but I also feel that was
your choice to do these acts and you should not have expected anything from her in return for your unasked for 'favors'.
No need to be keeping score.
If you do something nice, do it to be nice, not because you expect something in return.
It could be that she is embarassed about baring her private life to you and she does not know how to handle the emotions. Give her time, continue to be YOU and don't change yourself for anyone...they never appreciate it. The people who love you, love you for who you ARE, not what they want you to be and you trying to be it.
Hold out and give The-Right-One a chance to enter your life.
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