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Originally Posted by shalini
...I told him that I had really started to like him more than a friend and he acknowledged the same feelings but there was something preventing him from going any further with this relationship. He told me I wouldn't understand ..
...he wants someone that is Christian like him. I, obviously, am not Christian. He believes that only Christians will go to Heavean and he would only want to marry someone that would go to Heavean with him after death.
Four months later .. our relationship has advanced to where we act as a couple, when we are alone. If his friends knew about us, they would force him not to see me again.
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I'm sorry. I think this relationship is doomed unless you both can compromise and stop HIDING. The secretiveness is most telling, to me. Love should not be treated as if you are ashamed of it. If it is being treated that way...it isn't True Love, in my book.
Sorry for the negativity, I vote you need to cut your losses. It appears he would rather break before he bends.