I have just joined
www.apparelyzed.com, we will see.
So far they are really nice. Learned something weird today, there are disabled fetishists/lovers called Devotees. Also, Wannabees and Pretenders (one wants to be disabled and tries to get Drs. to harm them and the other pretends to be disabled, they creep me out).
Joined a couple of My Space groups as well. A Buddhist site, couple of pipe sites and disabled sites.