Tonchi is a friend and we've had several lengthy pm discussions. There is good reason for her desire for anonimity, and she is one of the nicest, kindest people you could ever hope to meet. None of you (self included) have walked in her shoes. I know a teensy bit of her story and I wouldn't want to be photographed, either, if I were her.
Now Patrick since you fessed all to the others, why was I different than you expected?
