Well, my sis has gotten better with the drugs (at least as far as I can see) so now it is just that she is still in drug addict mode. I no longer see her high all the time, but she still acts like a drug addict which makes me think she is still using. So we can't really band together to tell her to go into treatment because it seems that the drugs aren't as bad.
But I do know she drinks 2-3 times a week (at least) and smokes pot all the time. Her drug of choice was coke or crystal meth. She would shoot up coke, and I am pretty sure she took meth pills. She has done everything under the Sun though. She doesn't consider pot to be a real drug, so therefore she will never quit.
What I'm trying to get at is we (my family not including my sis) need to decide what we want to do about her stealing and lying and all of the other shit that goes along with her problems. She always seems to go back to the drugs so I have no doubt that is what she will do, but for now her destructive behavor is what needs to be controlled.
My aunt, uncle, gma, me, and my sis were all supposed to get toghether this weekend but things were so busy we didn't have a chance. We need to do it soon though because Thanksgiving is next week and we need to figure out a plan of action for it.
Sis was in jail from June 2005 to January 2006 (her longest sentence) for some kind of petty theft or drug charge or something. The judge that sentenced her told her that the offence didn't warrent that harsh of a sentence, but she obviously didn't care. In her first court hearing with that particular judge she was high on meth, pot, and she was drunk. But she actually still went to court! I think the sentence was acutally 1 year and 145 days but she got out for good behavior or some crap like that.
While she was in jail she cleaned up her habit for the most part, but she still uses from time to time and she still acts like a drug addict which is the most telling to me. She probably uses a lot more than I know, but at least she doesn't show up high as a kite anymore. My gma basically told her last year before she went to jail that she was not to be using at her house. And for the most part she doesn't. But that doesn't stop her from all of the other crap she does.
Anyways, thanks for your advice. I just got my statement for the credit card that she stole, and apparently she spent $142 the day I found out about the fraud right before I canceled the card. That puts her total spending at $455.19
(I added it up today). I couldn't sleep last night I was so upset about her other spending. I know I shouldn't be, but each time I learn more about it or have to do more concerning it, it just upsets me. But it helps a lot that I can vent here. Thanks.
