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Hoof Hearted · 11-20-2006, 11:16 PM

I'm sorry, but I don't see where he crossed any line. Except perhaps, for one that you may have drawn in the sand of your values...

I think it is just a guy giving as accurate description of a woman to another guy. If you trust your guy, no problems. This was HIS email and not yours. Perhaps Bob would have worded it differently if he knew you were reading them, perhaps not. It may just be how he saw and described the situation as accurately as he could.

Overall, I think the problem is yours and you should not pursue it.
Nothing good could come of it because I feel it would make you look insecure. Insecure over a description, no less. It doesn't matter how you try to justify yourself, you'll come out looking bad if you try to confront anyone about this.
Pick your battles. This isn't one of them.

Keep in mind, that this could also be a subtle warning to your finace; that if she is man-hunting he will be prepared to defer any advances yet remain polite while giving her advice.
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11-20-2006, 11:16 PM	#9
Hoof Hearted ...you smell something? Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Monroe, GA Posts: 420	I'm sorry, but I don't see where he crossed any line. Except perhaps, for one that you may have drawn in the sand of your values... I think it is just a guy giving as accurate description of a woman to another guy. If you trust your guy, no problems. This was HIS email and not yours. Perhaps Bob would have worded it differently if he knew you were reading them, perhaps not. It may just be how he saw and described the situation as accurately as he could. Overall, I think the problem is yours and you should not pursue it. Nothing good could come of it because I feel it would make you look insecure. Insecure over a description, no less. It doesn't matter how you try to justify yourself, you'll come out looking bad if you try to confront anyone about this. Pick your battles. This isn't one of them. Keep in mind, that this could also be a subtle warning to your finace; that if she is man-hunting he will be prepared to defer any advances yet remain polite while giving her advice. hh __________________ I have the ability of single-minded determination and focu...Hey, look! A horse!