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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce
Sure, kids change your dynamics, force you to interact with more people and the government. Families in close proximity also tend to intrude on your life, whether you want it or not. Family is more likely to drop by, ask for favors, nag you into going places and tough to say no to. Of course that works both ways.... gives you people to drop in on, ask favors of and nag. 
I've always found when it comes to family, 300 miles is about right. Too far to just swing by, or borrow a cup of sugar, but close enough to get there fairly quickly(4or5hrs), without flying, if need be. |
I think there are pros and cons to most situations and yeah, sometimes it can be a bit wearing, but as you say, there are some pretty great benefits too. I've never noticed any nagging though. My family is very supportive on the whole. I have a lot to be grateful for in my life, and the number one thing is my family.
My closest relative lives within walking distance of our house, and the rest are all within about half an hours drive, apart from the few that live out of town. I think it's fantastic, and xmas is awesome. We have about 80 or so people at our family do on xmas night. I love it, and so does everyone else. Geez I can't wait for xmas to roll around again.
