How others see us is rarely how we see ourselves. (there's a bit of pop psych for you)
The reason I think what I do is because a lot of what I see of Ducks is what I saw of myself a few yrs ago. I reckon she's getting there though, and besides, those bad boys are a challenge.

The only thing we chicks do wrong with them is not employing their adage which is, find 'em, f*ck 'em and flick 'em. IF we could just do that, the world would be our oyster.