[Aliantha]

I'm with Bruce on this one Be-bop. When my mum was really sick, lots of people wanted to help, so I let them. Not only did it help me out, but it also gave me strength too. It also allowed me time to talk to my kids and just be a mum to them sometimes.

If they're anything like most people though, they probably wont ring you and tell you they need help, but if you just show up and start doing the washing or whatever looks like it needs doing, they'll all be eternally grateful. Trust me, it's true.

There's heaps of people here who can help you through this if you need it. Keep us posted if you find the time.

My best wishes are with you all.