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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl
Anonymous, Bruce is completely right.
Think carefully when he comes crying to get you back - and you know he will.
If you continue in this situation you will have no right to complain.
This is how he is - he had the chance to "reform" when this came up last year. We said he wouldn't change and he didn't. No amount of "I'm sorry"s and "I love you"s are going to change the bottom line - THIS IS WHAT HE DOES.
I don't mean that to explain/ excuse his behaviour. I think that was your problem the first time round - you wanted to ask us why he was doing it. It doesn't matter why when you get right down to it. What matters is that it hurts you, and it is a reasonable thing to be hurt about. If you can't change to accept his sexual behaviour - and there is no reason you should - then he will keep hurting you.
Write it off.
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I agree. I am trying. It ain't easy. Here comes the moment of truth...
I was off today and delivered his belongings to his residence, and picked up mine. We have 2 big items left to exchange that could not be handled in my vehicle.
He has been gone all week working, and I have been successful at not answering the phone and doing alot of self talk to keep calm, focused, and REALISTIC.
He just got off the plane here and both of my phones are ringing. I know what the right thing to do is, I just have to do it.
As upalatable as the whole thing is....I am trying not to puke.