juju, I'd say your emotions are completely normal. The whole thing will get more real as the pregnancy progresses.
[prostelizing] The important thing is that you and your wife take complete responsibility for the childs health and well-being. My wife and I took
Bradley Classes to that end. I think its a far better system than lame ass er Lamaze. It emphasizes proper nutrition and drug free husband coached child birth. You will learn to read your wifes progress through birthing and know when to encourage and when to shut the fuck up! Check it out. My wife is totally into it and we had two naturally birthed chidren to show for it.[/prostelizing]