[Whit]

     The part I didn't get was how he could think we could give any specific advice without any specific info. I mean obviously a person would go about seeking oral gratification differently than a little bu-fu (strap-on or standard). It's like asking "How does one cook?" So the nicer people answered, "With proper communication" (even included ways to make that easier) which using the cooking analogy is like saying, "With proper use of heat." (Baked goods usually are good) I just couldn't figure out why he thought such a broad question could be answered particularly well.