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Originally Posted by NoBoxes
Wouldn't you be more comfortable reciprocating if it were for a specified period of time (so you could see the light at the end of the tunnel)? Third parties who aren't a threat to your marriage should be accommodating.  |
A thoughtful and thoroughgoing response, but the proffered situation is not viable in our case. There is no intent on anyone's part to spend any length of time without alternative partners. In other words, ain't gonna happen, except by happenstance. The marriage/business partnership will either survive or not, and the mundane chores will have to be dealt with in whatever way they can be. At present, all signs point to everything being secondary to the pursuit of polyamory. This will change once we each settle on more or less consistent partners, but right now, there's a lot of jumble.