I don't know what to tell you Elspode. I know how you feel though. We have not done much as a poly couple, but that is mainly because we don't know any other couples or singles that believe the same way we do. Add to that we don't really have time to build a new relationship, and it just doesn't really happen.
I wish there was a simple solution to everything, but I fear there will never be anything serious when it comes to romance. I do wish you all the luck in the world. I hope you find someone too so that you can kick that envy in the teeth. Envy can be very dangerous to your health.
I think that the women just don't realize what a great guy you are, and as soon as word gets out you will be beating them off with sticks!
I will be sending good vibes your way in the meantime.
