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I'm sorry, none of that was probably useful.
As you said, I cant speak for your wife.
I can look at her actions and make assumptions about them, but you know her better than any of us.
I know you want to hear from her and for her to explain what is happening....but...she may not be able too, she may be working things through herself.
Its the not knowing or being able to *fix* it...or getting the chance to fix it, that is probably eating you up....but (and again, you would know better than I), I gather she wouldnt be putting you through this on a whim....it sounds like she has done the *reconciling*.
Rest assured, if she wants things to change, she WONT just make one phone call and then go "oh well, he didnt answer, it was probably a bad idea anyway" and if she does do something like that....you dont want to be a part of it.
I'm sorry we cant make the hurt any less
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