|
Honestly Deuce? I can't offer any advice on that. I think you stand more chance of understanding each other, after the divorce is complete and the dust has settled. I may be wrong. You are in the situation, not me, but I don't at any point get a sense from what you've said that this is anything but part of a process which will result in the dissolving of your marriage. The more you can reduce the impact of that on your future chances of friendship (and that happens often) during this process, is in my opinion, to the good. Getting involved in tempestuous arguments is unlikely to help that.
It's tough. I can only imagine what it must be like to have the heartbreak of a relationship ending and all this shit on top of it. But you are getting through it. That's what you are doing right now.
Maybe I am wrong, and talking would be a good thing to do. I don't know. But my instincts still tell me you should listen to your lawyers.
Can we have some input from people who've been through it?
|