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So you tell me. Is having people say what you want to hear more important than saying truths bluntly? If so, we would never get along. I would resent that you always lied to me. Yes, everything would be considered a lie because I could not trust what you say. As noted previously, I have highest contempt for liars - including those who do it to be nice. Only children worry about emotions. Nice to me is one who is honest.
So you tell me. How would you rephrase it to be not demeaning? Since you know it was demeaing, then you phrase it to be 100% honest. You criticized. Now show us how it should be phrased to appease emotions.
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Could you explain that first paragraph t me please?