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Originally Posted by Cicero
Griff- please read my post #465. I think you accidently skipped it because we posted at the same time....
You know what? Nevermind. No one needs to read/hear this crap...
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Cicero, surely you've been around the Cellar long enough to know that we'll listen if you need to vent - at the very least. There's such a wide mix of people here that someone may come up with helpful suggestion.
I wish that someone were me, but I'm afraid not this time. Your posts about your husband's behaviour chilled me to the marrow. It You may be right - perhaps he is using sex and your desire to be desireable to him in a power play game to control you. But if he's ill with cancer, maybe that's the only thing he thinks he can control right now?
Can you sit and talk to him about it? Could you both get to counselling?
Hugs, anyway.