not a guy, but problems like this could possibly avoided by good communication, a good budget, and a good idea of how much discretionary money is available.
From a woman's standpoint, if I set up a whole sexy lingerie seduction scene, and all my husband could think of was that I spent money on it, I would
a) be crushed
b) be furious
c) think there's something seriously wrong with my marriage
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