^ what the monster said, 'Spode ^
He sounds like a decent man, but you are too, so don't beat yourself up.
A man who needed to be a better person wouldn't even have got to hear about the ill wife!
Still, if it got you to count your blessing it was a positive encounter.
Spud - lots of love sent to you, hope the detoxing goes as well as it can. At least it's another milestone passed.
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