[Sundae]

Cic - sorry, fixed my post before I saw yours, wasn't anything sneaky.

Ducks - I know many women with the same story. All I can assume is cold feet or friends who express concerns. Two things which are regularly ascribed to women, but count double with men due to communication problems.

Oh and btw - no I didn't get laid on Saturday night, although I could have. Many times over.
The plus point was that I felt like I was 19 again - turning heads, being approached, not being approached but eyed up by men who decided I was out of their league, being able to talk to any man there, secure in the knowledge I was "on top".
The downside - being pawed, the fact it was a meat market, being bothered on the dance floor, having men who wanted sex chatting me up while the (presumably decent) men were intimidated into corners.

Will have a good think before going next month. It would be a shame to give up the feeling I had wearing my corset and heels. I felt 7 foot tall.