Thread: Swinging....
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Old 09-22-2008, 06:25 PM   #4
BigV
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Originally Posted by DucksNuts View Post
Its an arranged weekend...think eyes wide shut....I've been to one years and years ago, but I dont do this kinda thing very well when I am involved with my partner (previously, it was a f-buddy type thing).
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Originally Posted by DucksNuts View Post
Meh V, can show you --snip
Thanks for the pix offer--pass though.

The bold parts are where I lose the connection. I just can't--I was going to say imagine. That's not right. I can imagine it. I could even imagine myself in such a situation. But even imagining myself in such a situation isn't stimulating without a loving partner. There's no appeal without including the love of my heart.

When you were involved with your partner, what made you not do it well? I'm in that same mindset. With a partner, whatever's mutual is open for discussion. But otherwise, no.

I'm mangling what I'm trying to say. Here it is. No sex without love for me. Just not happenin. To each his own, I don't condemn you or the others, I just can't though. Carry on.
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