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Both daughters have indicated to me they wish their families to celebrate winter Solstice this year instead of Christmas.

Perfectly fine with me, except . . .

--how does one actually celebrate solstice?

--I told them I still wish to give gifts (which seems perfectly fine to them), but I'm unsure how to approach this with all the grandchildren.

Any ideas/advice on how to switch over to this? Since Christmas is so all-pervasive?

(there's a big plus in this since it's going to piss of the Ex royally, lol!)