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Sundae · 11-21-2008, 06:01 PM

Men who don't read are not a turn-off for me.
If I was writing a wish-list, they would not be on it, but three of the men I have been closest to started reading (at least more) because of me.

I also introduced a couple of men to poetry.

And I took three men out for their first meal in a restaurant without their familes. Okay I was younger then, but the oldest was 25 - his previous girlfriends had been students.

I also introduced two men to opera. Well - two who would listen to it again

And more to musicals, just because I used to sing in the car and around the house.

I certainly don't believe that women should set out to change men - not at all. But I do believe that it is possible to share the things you love with the man you love without trying to be a female Dr Higgens. That's why my deal breakers are so few.

But what do I know.

11-21-2008, 06:01 PM	#60
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Men who don't read are not a turn-off for me. If I was writing a wish-list, they would not be on it, but three of the men I have been closest to started reading (at least more) because of me. I also introduced a couple of men to poetry. And I took three men out for their first meal in a restaurant without their familes. Okay I was younger then, but the oldest was 25 - his previous girlfriends had been students. I also introduced two men to opera. Well - two who would listen to it again And more to musicals, just because I used to sing in the car and around the house. I certainly don't believe that women should set out to change men - not at all. But I do believe that it is possible to share the things you love with the man you love without trying to be a female Dr Higgens. That's why my deal breakers are so few. But what do I know.