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Sundae · 11-26-2008, 10:36 PM

Fair point. But it was you that pointed out the shipping cost to me. I didn't really think it through.

And the amount I give away doesn't add up to all that much. I worried about the fact my parents had given me £30 and my salary hadn't cleared in my bank. It did clear and I gave them the money back. Do I give £30 to beggars? No.

I accept that if I were financially responsible, I would put every piece of change that I thought disposable into savings. And then when a real emergency occurred, I'd have it to draw on. But the truth is I'm no more able to identify a real emergency (as opposed to a desire to paint my toenails) than I am to keep my mitts off the money in the first place.

Please note, I haven;t asked for anything from anyone in the Cellar in quite a while, and I was probably wrong to do so in the first place. Obviously I am capable of working and earning my own money. Being lousy with money is no excuse, and I accept that. My only disclaimer is that aside from time off for depression (during which I did volunteer) I have always worked for a living, and will probably have two jobs again within the next month.

I do not pretend to be better than other people or make out that their attitude to people who beg for things is wrong. Mine is just different and I was stating my point of view.

11-26-2008, 10:36 PM	#15
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Fair point. But it was you that pointed out the shipping cost to me. I didn't really think it through. And the amount I give away doesn't add up to all that much. I worried about the fact my parents had given me £30 and my salary hadn't cleared in my bank. It did clear and I gave them the money back. Do I give £30 to beggars? No. I accept that if I were financially responsible, I would put every piece of change that I thought disposable into savings. And then when a real emergency occurred, I'd have it to draw on. But the truth is I'm no more able to identify a real emergency (as opposed to a desire to paint my toenails) than I am to keep my mitts off the money in the first place. Please note, I haven;t asked for anything from anyone in the Cellar in quite a while, and I was probably wrong to do so in the first place. Obviously I am capable of working and earning my own money. Being lousy with money is no excuse, and I accept that. My only disclaimer is that aside from time off for depression (during which I did volunteer) I have always worked for a living, and will probably have two jobs again within the next month. I do not pretend to be better than other people or make out that their attitude to people who beg for things is wrong. Mine is just different and I was stating my point of view.