Just forget it mtp.
You're wonderful. Very charitable. You should be very proud.
I'm terrible and simply shouldn't speak to people like you the way I do.
But just keep in mind for next time; if you're going to ask me to back up what I say, I will, and since you were the one that asked, you were the one I used as an example.
For the record once and for all, any charity is good. I just think it's better if you don't feel the need to put conditions on your charitable deeds. To me, it's takes away from the other things you do.