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Tree Fae · 12-07-2008, 08:50 PM

My first husband had been my best friend/blood brother since we were 15 years old. It came as quite the shock to me to have him cheat on me multiple times. We didn't date till I was in collage, but I think overall he wanted to make the friendship more than it was, but still didn't have the dating experience he should have. It has taken a lot of years and life changes to see that.
My problem is that I tend to give everything to my partner wanting them to be my best friend, and this came back at me. I ended up with a highly dependent and heavily troubled husband. Thankfully I had other friends to turn too. Just a benefit for me that the main one became a main and important factor in my life. He is a friend as well as a lover.
I do wish I had a woman friend in town to have as a best friend, but that really has never been my way for some reason. I do have a long distance one but its not the same as having someone to do stuff with. I would like to have that.

12-07-2008, 08:50 PM	#32
Tree Fae Major Inhabitant Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Raytown, MO Posts: 120	My first husband had been my best friend/blood brother since we were 15 years old. It came as quite the shock to me to have him cheat on me multiple times. We didn't date till I was in collage, but I think overall he wanted to make the friendship more than it was, but still didn't have the dating experience he should have. It has taken a lot of years and life changes to see that. My problem is that I tend to give everything to my partner wanting them to be my best friend, and this came back at me. I ended up with a highly dependent and heavily troubled husband. Thankfully I had other friends to turn too. Just a benefit for me that the main one became a main and important factor in my life. He is a friend as well as a lover. I do wish I had a woman friend in town to have as a best friend, but that really has never been my way for some reason. I do have a long distance one but its not the same as having someone to do stuff with. I would like to have that. __________________ May the Forest Be With You!!