To be clear, I wasn't trying to be unkind or unwelcoming to Bella-Lunagirl in any way.
I really do think that she should seek out forums frequented by and dedicated to the lifestyle she is curious about. The Cellar braintrust is indeed collectively formidable but I'm only aware of one lifestyle sub here and recall that she is also seeking clarity.
My point, therefore, is that we can discuss it all day long but if BG is seeking guidance about whether or not to make a lifestyle change she is advised that better, more experienced guidance is probably available elsewhere.
I think the word "Cellar" may be directing some folks in this direction who understand the word in a different context.
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